Yes, she is a sweet looking girl, i still think i am about to wake up at any minute now,:) and yes she did used to be a model, but now works for a landscape design company in their office. I had thought about the thread on who's your mate, but i was not sure how to describe our relationship, definately not single but as i have already been to China to meet a girl from CL who i thought was the 'one' and having it not work out i think it is also too early for a pre-marriage relationship status. Is there one for 'She's my girlfriend, so hands off Arnold' ? :icon_cheesygrin:That would describe us best i think.